Marrying someone from back home.

[inzi]

@funky_chicken

My mum is looking for rishta’s for me and we’ve seen a couple here, some are born brits others are students from pak. Now, my mum has seen a guy when she went to pak in march and really liked him, so yesterday she said that when she goes next time, i should go with her and see if i like the guy or not. Now, last night I couldnt help but think about what would happen if i ended up with a guy from back home. i kept thinking about, how he would get a job here, would kind of job it would be?, its already tough has it is getting a job nowadays with the current climate and i just couldnt help but think about it.
how is he going to find living in the uk? different surrondings, environment, will he be able to adjust? am i going to have to support him if he has no luck in finding work? he maybe qualified with a good education, but nowadays employers do not look at qualifications, they look at experience and skills.
i cant stop thinking about these things, and a part of me is really really scared. a few of my mates have got married from back home and their husbands are working in factories or in a restaurant, and i dont want that. i want him to have a proper good job, with a good income, but i’m frightened that wont be the case.

am i just being paranoid?

another girl who is more focused on how much her future husband would bring in rather than the guy.

any knowledgeable person could tell me what are husband responsibilities when ti comes to wife. He is responsible for basic needs of her, am i correct?
Man doesn’t have to buy her jewelery, whine and dine, vacations trips??
cuz even if i can afford, i anit spending that money on her..you make your own money. getting sick of gold diggers