Re: Marrying out of your Caste
one more thing: when people say that one shouldn't really care too much about what extended family think about ...and it only matters if your immediate family approves and supports you. They are right. But extended family to some people (like you and me) are still some of the closest people in our lives and it does mean something if we have their luv and support behind us as we take this next important step in our lives. Plus who likes to see your own parents stressed out because THEIR immediate family - their siblings, are not on board and disapproving? And as much as you tell parents not to stress about it... you know they will.