Re: Marrying a strong woman or a weak woman
See Dushi... No-one is truly strong or weak at any point in their lives...Until they have certain experiences. Thats when you really find out your true strength (or weakness) Sometimes its too late ie you are already married or you have parted ways.
The way I see it is that this man had his moment and proved he could not back you up...so believe me that ou are fortunate you found this out when you did. Otherwise if it had come up later on in life, you would have had to be extra strong to bear up with the consequences.
Get some sleep sweetheart...you posted way too late (or too early?)