Re: Marrying a Non- Muslim
MQ - Sometimes people are moved to do something, you never know how God/Allah is working. Half the battle is getting people to show up so they can hear a teaching or a sermon, the other half is getting them to accept it.
Initially, it may be wrong for someone to follow another into a faith because of lust, but if they listen and accept that faith because of it, then that was the way God lead him to that faith.
MQ - I teach an adult programming class in C++ for beginners. In a class about halfway through I usually ask everyone to write a sort of medium loop code and ask 5 people to write what they have on the board.
Everytime without fail, there is usually 3-5 different ways to write the program ending with the same result. I always do this to stress the point that everyone has a different idea and way of doing things but as long as the result is the same (or workable) they are all correct.
If the result is a sincere, practicing Muslim, does it matter how they got there or the reasons they started learning?
That was all I was trying to say :)