Marrying a non-muslim who is NOT ready to convert..

[Holy_Lota]

Re: Marrying a non-muslim who is NOT ready to convert..

@mirage

please bring the matter to the sahb e shariyat/ Alim, if you can find any, near by who can guide you whether this is alright from religion’s point of view. I think muslim men are allowed to marry christian ladies as they are ehl e kitab but if they want to stay christian after marriage and what about the children to come an Islamic scholar can guide you better and with authentic references. If the answer is positive, well and good. Otherwise ask your brother which love he finds stronger in his hearts of hearts and honsetly, ISLAM or the girl. And then accept his decision large heartedly. If his love for religion is lesser than the love for girl, there is no harm to anyone but himself.

Ok he says that his faith is very important to him but he cannot FORCE anyone to get converted and accept Islam. He also provides the reason that Islam doesnt ask us to force anyone to give up on their religion. And there was a time when he says he tried but since she’s said no, he’d not insist.
About marrying a christian, he says its right. I tried explaining him that its “legal”, not right, he says Islam cannot make anything legal unless its right as well.