Marrying a multiple divorcee

Lifestyle Relationships
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When considering a rishta from a multiple divorcee, would you be concerned as to why the person has had multiple failed marriages? Would you:

1: Talk to the person him/herself and try to inquire the reasons behind the failed marriages?
2: Talk to someone from his family or circle of friends?
3: Talk to someone not related to him/her so that you’re not told a biased story?
4: Let it go and not bring up the topic at all?

PS: This is NOT about me or anyone else. :emmy:

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Re: Marrying a multiple divorcee

1, 2, 3

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Re: Marrying a multiple divorcee

To be, or not to be, aye there's the point....

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Some people tell me I look like Ross Geller. I can see how that might be a problem now...

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Well marriage 1 and 3 weren’t his fault. :snooty:

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I would follow all the first three lines of inquiry and make my final decision.

I want to get a full picture before I make any judgement, I am willing to give anyone a chance but if my son or daughter loved the prospector I will give him/her thier chance to speak.

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Re: Marrying a multiple divorcee

This

Haha!

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Who is he?

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Sure.

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If its a woman, in our society people don't even accept a one-time divorcee even if it wasn't her fault. A multiple divorcee woman doesn't stand a chance.

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Honestly...wouldn't really consider. I'd be concerned why multiple marriages ended.

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I would follow the first three things mentioned...some people just have bad luck.

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I know some one who was divorced in 30's ,remarried at age 40+ widowed then she married at age 55+
she is a sweet person and has had a run of bad luck..
no harm in following No 1,2,3...

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You mean the girls (his wifey's), right?

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Personally I wouldn't consider a multiple divorcee. Not that I think there is something wrong with them, it is just a matter of personal preference. Well unless she hides the fact from me, in which case of course I would. So you see people, honesty might not be the best policy after all. When I am no longer around, who will give you these important lessons in life.

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fart

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Its true. My fiance is a divorcee. Her ex husband abused her pretty badly, both physically and mentally. My cousins and some uncles and aunties were not happy when we got engaged. My parents were okay with it and my mother in particular was quite happy that I'm marrying her.

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If the number goes more then two- - hell NO

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i dont think my parents will accept a divorcee. even if they do then divorcee's past will be discussed (not in detail though). i might ask questions too but before that i will talk to my parents as to asking questions about the divorcee's past is ok or not or whether they will do it themselves.

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i dont know if he is referring to David Schwimmer who played the role of Dr Ross Geller in television sitcom "Friends"