What are the pros and cons of it?
Re: Marrying a man who has anger issues
I had no idea there were pros to marrying angry men. Interesting.
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You should just know how to handle him. Never aggravate the situation by reacting equally when he is angry. Secondly, try to leave the issue when he is angry .. get to it later on when he has cooled down.
Re: Marrying a man who has anger issues
I had no idea there were pros to marrying angry men. Interesting.
Yes ... there are pros ... they are easier to manipulate ... Since the sequence to gain a mature mind is to learn to control "pain" and then "anger" and then "hunger" and then "lust" ... in that order ... the one who can't control his anger is what I would call "emotionally kacha" ...
The quicker in anger they get - they should also be quick to lure and quick to direct and much more easier to hide issues from ... other men will work out things and guess when you are hiding things ... Of course I would only urge hiding things which are for the greater good ... not because you want to cheat or something ...
Re: Marrying a man who has anger issues
I had no idea there were pros to marrying angry men. Interesting.
its like walking around with a stick of dynamite honey. you have the fuse. you chose to light it. and watch it explode on people. fear factor. people will fear thee :D
.....yes im really reaching here when looking for pros
Re: Marrying a man who has anger issues
You should just know how to handle him. Never aggravate the situation by reacting equally when he is angry. Secondly, try to leave the issue when he is angry .. get to it later on when he has cooled down.
That's a way to deal with the anger....not an actual pro per say....
Re: Marrying a man who has anger issues
Yes ... there are pros ... they are easier to manipulate ... Since the sequence to gain a mature mind is to learn to control "pain" and then "anger" and then "hunger" and then "lust" ... in that order ... the one who can't control his anger is what I would call "emotionally kacha" ...
The quicker in anger they get - they should also be quick to lure and quick to direct and much more easier to hide issues from ... other men will work out things and guess when you are hiding things ... Of course I would only urge hiding things which are for the greater good ... not because you want to cheat or something ...
That's a pretty far fetched pro.
If as a wife you must spend your life in manipulating your husband, that's a lot on her shoulders. The entire relationship depends on the wife taking control, and *if *she slips and loses control, than she will have to pay for it.
Re: Marrying a man who has anger issues
That's a pretty far fetched pro.
If as a wife you must spend your life in manipulating your husband, that's a lot on her shoulders. The entire relationship depends on the wife taking control, and *if *she slips and loses control, than she will have to pay for it.
Yes ... so just like drinking alcohol it is better to avoid ... :D
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No more seriously … as I mentioned before such men who get angry also get loved up easily although a slip up is bound to happen once in a while … for a woman to show her tears and becomes apologetic and lovey dovey quickly enough then that will turn the situation around quite quickly …
The con - that I didn’t mention is that a simple slip up will not be that harmful … but if she attempts to have a right go at him he will not stand for it … like other men do … 
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^ You have bad temper Sahar? Thats probably not the last thing I'd guess about you.
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Um ok.
Re: Marrying a man who has anger issues
That's a way to deal with the anger....not an actual pro per say....
Yup for dealing with it, not a pro at all.
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IMO it's ok to get angry but it's not ok to not let go of things. Marriage requires adjustment one way or the other from both end but rigidity in behaviour & keeping grudges destroy marriages. A husband who thinks of himself as God and does not believe in letting things go or forgiving & forgetting can make your & your family's life hell.
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The only pro is the professional that will inevitable need to be hired to help the man manage his anger.
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He might turnout to be a professional boxer . . . a pro I suppose :p
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there has to be some other pros too...anger can be dealt then !
but more incentives ppl :p
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Do not touch a rishta offer with 16 feet long pole if the potential guy has anger issues.
They get bad with time they do not go away on their own unless taken care of.
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you should not take chance and run away. :@:
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un-necessary anger is generally not a good thing - esp stay away from guys/women who have 'anger issues'
so cons altogether
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Anger is such a turn off. He must have smtng really good about him to overcome this.