Hoverer
December 11, 2017, 7:18pm
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Re: Marrying a guy who looks like Imran Abbas?
Okay I could ask my friends but then it would just explode into something everyone will know about and right now I’m not sure about anything. Here I would get objective, non-biased thoughts. Give me your thoughts from your own experiences please.
When I say let’s be certain of everything when we meet in person, he says stuff like, meeting in person won’t change how he feels about me.
He says all these super sweet things on the phone like he’s already falling for me and this after talking on the phone several times for a week and that he’s hoping I’m not talking to any other guy in the rishta process.
He agreed to go to a dance event that I’ve been wanting to go to for so long but it’s all married couples so never went. He’s even willing to do anything to make it work.
I tried to test him a couple times saying since he’s on work permit right now that using the fiance sponsorship, I can sponsor him before marriage. Just to see if that’s the only reason he’s being nice so after he does get all that, he’ll say sayonara. But he said we’ll see all that after marriage, he may or may not.
He’s even willing to take it slowly. I don’t want to screw up but then it seems too good to be true and i’m scared that might really be the case.
My gut feeling isn’t telling me anything, it’s just fear of being a bakhri or fool and suspicious of whether this is all real.
He’s freaking me out!!!
I hear you. I think I’d also be the same - when things start sounding too good to be true, you’re definitely right to wonder.
So, give it a chance, but be very cautious and don’t leave yourself vulnerable.