Re: Marrying a Convert
my bhabi (half spanish, and half british) convereted to islam 8 years ago, and she converted for herself. she met my brother 3 years after she converted and my parents were happy to embrace her into our family because she was a far better muslim then any of us.
i think the only time marrying a convert should be an issue is when the person is converting for someone else, other then that i think it kind of becomes other muslims responsibility to welcome converts into our culture and lifes, because form my experience i've noticed that for the most part convert muslims are alienated from their families.