NONIE
April 9, 2013, 12:03am
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Re: Marrying a 33 Year Old Man
Age difference between me and my hubby is almost 6 to 7 years and I find it quite perfect in my case.
Before falling in love and marrying to him, I always wanted to marry someone with the age gap of maximum 3 years. Same age group was quite ideal for me. Then I fell in love with him, my hubby. I got married to him.
We are humorous in discussions, while fight too but something that I found great is the way how he handles the situation when we find us not on the same page or arguing, or not agreeing to a certain matter.
I think, if we were of the same age, circumstances wouldn’t be that similar. I would go crazy and he would loose his temper… but because he is mature than me, he is not AS emotional as am I, he is of course more experienced than me… he let go a lot of things. When I am being childish or stubborn over something.. he knows how to handle me Instead fighting or imposing he stays quiet and define me things logically.
There is many more I could explain you through my experience but the list would go on. Long story short.. I am absolutely ok with the age difference we have and luckily as me, he is being told quite often that you must be 28 or 29… while he is in his mid thirtys!!
u r lucky girl… in my case its opposite… he is stubborn becuz he has his habits that’s r not going to change and i had to change myself 360 to maintain the relationship.. he is mature but he wanted me to be mature , he fights and i keep my mouth shut… its not about the age… i think it is person to person…