Re: Marrying a 33 Year Old Man
Marrying someone closer to your age will not guarantee that you will not have understanding issues. Whether or not there are any understanding issues between you and thsi 33-year-old depends on the two of you only.
I would highly recommend you and this guy spend time getting to know each other, have open/honest conversations about what BOTH of you expect out of the marriage and what your plans are in the future regarding things like career, education, children etc. Ask him things like what his family is like, how traditional/religious are his parents, if he expects you to live in a joint family situation, his views on you working, just how much he practicies his religion etc. If both of you seem to agree on those types of major things…then pursue the rishta.
However, if there seems to have major things you two do not agree on OR if you just get a feeling that you and this particular man are just too different…then this is not Mr. Right. Do not rush into a marriage. Ask ANYONE who has been divorced (and maybe some people even on this forum stuck in unhappy marriages)…it’s better to be single (and perhaps frustrated with that status) versus being married and actually being miserable b/c you chose the wrong peron.