Re: Married people with kids - tell me
Depends how much time he has available to give to his family...work schedules of both parents etc....ppl i know who have kids, most of them naturally want to spend time with their kids...but of course, not every single minute of the day...u wud probably need lots of time for urself, as well as couple time (without kids)...where i work, a lot of parents complain they don't have enough "alone" or "couple" time...that all their time is spent with their kids...so no doubt, giving ur kids time is precious and very important...but don't forget to nurture ur marriage also.
As for ur situation...firstly, i don't think whether he is a "good trustworthy husband" or not is relevant to how much time he spends with u or the kids...but secondly, i know how it feels to be with someone who has lied in the past...but u know, the more u try to keep a tight fist with him, the more the situation will worsen...that's wot i think, personally...of course, he needs to be aware of how u feel about all this...so please, tell him, cos he may have no idea...so r u saying he spends zero time with u then? That is very wrong, esp. cos of wot happened in the past...having his friends is one thing, but u r his wife, and shud also be his friend too...so he needs to give u a lot of time also..."at least seven hours a day" that's a lot! I suggest u two openly communicate about this issue...if u love each other, u'll work it out...good luck to u :)