Re: married muslim lady in relationship with someone
^ the other guy isn’t innocent either
It takes two to be in a relationship
I take the guy more guilty as he knows about her messed up marriage and she is vulnerable and he has her by her emotions yet married with kids
Please don’t even try to convince the other guy to marry her as he had already said he won’t even if she gets divorce, his wife and children life will get messed up
And even if he gets convinced, his wife and children can still have her depressed
Either divorce but don’t expect the other bonga guy with marry her
And cold shoulder to the other guy and get him completely out of her life
Yes will be depressed but if she carries on the relationship with the bonga , it will be far worst when he leaves her later
Re: married muslim lady in relationship with someone
He wouldn’t marry her in case she took divorce should be good enough reason for her to stop the affair. No one can be convinced to marry if they don’t want to.
She can move on by blocking his number and getting off of social media. If she is getting into depression, the help she needs is professional and talking to someone isn’t an alternative considering that might be part of the problem.
Re: married muslim lady in relationship with someone
Things in relationships are never black or white. Circumstances, attitudes, precarious situations, one thing leads to another and things like this can develop. Judging people without experiencing the same situations that they have gone through is not very fair.
I think the two partners need to sit together and come clean, discuss the problems, and try to find a solution. If after all this they cannot take their relationship back to a healthy one then there is no point continuing, and a break-up might be the most amicable option for all involved.
Re: married muslim lady in relationship with someone
I find it odd that OP mentions religion in the subject line, as if non-Muslim women have no sense of morality! Or other religions condone extramarital affairs!
Re: married muslim lady in relationship with someone
She is depending on someone else to get through depression, which can be a bad idea. I suggest she get professional help to learn how to cope with her stress and allow her to think positive. Then, sort things out with her husband, either maintain the marriage, separate or divorce. The other man is just an accessory in the picture. I suggest she stop talking to him, it can affect his wife and children too. I hope she finds stability in her life and has a brighter future.
And, may I add, her husband needs professional counseling too. Underneath this monster there is some deep rooted pain that brings out aggression towards his wife. I’m sure the wife can thrive if put in a better situation, but this monster is going to live in a dead end cycle unless he learns to control himself and find a way to cope.