The guy was obviously looking for fun and hoping to get his leg over (just being honest). Many non muslims and goray also find asian women and girls attractive but know they are on the whole not easy to obtain and that they wont put out. Since the guy hitting on you was desi, he obviously thought he'd try his luck and that him being asian may increase his chances.
Guys an obvious loser, glad you put him in his place. Men will sweet talk anything for a quickie and then disappear and the biggest triumph for them is getting with a muslim chick or virgin desi chick. Just be warned sisters, no good ever comes out of such relations and you are worth more than some slime ball. Poor wifey!
Judging from his confidence I'd say he KNOWS he's quite attractive. You said he was here with his friends, may be this was him and his mates re living their past time of picking up women and seeing if he's still got it. Maybe he was just trying to have some (halal?) fun.
Regardless though, I don't think his wife would have approved at all :ASA: (and she has fair reason to not approve)
I agree with PrincessJ. Sounds like a total hoebag. You said no, I wonder how many before you have said yes.
It depends on which way you look at it to be honest.
It can be worse. If he's alone, why isn't he at home. What married desi man would be at a bar alone at this hour and not at home with his family?
Although, if he's alone, he may have just been looking for someone to talk to. And considering you're both desis, your group of friends would have been the easiest for him to approach.
^ so you are saying its 'ok' or 'normal' for a married man to chat to a single girl in such a way?
Nope. Like I said earlier, hes a total hoebag and just because you said no who knows how many have said yes.
Just depends on your perspective. My view is men like this should be castrated. If you were born a man, act like it.
what a persistent guy lol
and good on you for not following strange men
although you should have ignored him and from now on please check if the guy has a ring or not.
its not that hard you just look at his hands and then ignore
Sup Inspiron!..let me tell ya something very clearly.
He approached you very confidently because to be frank..he just wanted to have affair with ya. And by that initially..he wanted to show you how confident he is so be very careful. And remember yo..when married fella is asking woman out..either he is not happy with his marriage, be in open relationship OR was just looking for fun.
Sup Inspiron!..let me tell ya something very clearly.
He approached you very confidently because to be frankly..he just wanted to have affair with ya. And by that initially..he wanted to show you how confident he is so be very careful. And remember yo..when married fella is asking woman out..either he is not happy with his marriage, be in open relationship OR was just looking for fun.
The guy was married. But he DIDN'T ask isnpiron whether she was single or not. She was there with her girlfriends (I suppose) which doesn't mean that she WAS single.
This shows that he was trying to just have a good time irrespective of the status of the girl he was hitting on and then could decide to take things from there after having a drink and getting to know Inspi a bit.
I've noticed some Asian men in London tend to get a bit full of themselves and think they can have more than one girl on the go. Like you said, he was good-looking, he obviously though he'd give it a shot and see what happens, the fact that he was out late without his wife seems to show that he didn't think it was a big deal and thought he can get away with it.
It's a good thing you said no to him, regardless of his intentions it would've made you look like the bad party.
