Re: Married life
Everyone has their flaws and weirdnesses. I know I have my dumbass moments (ill use her brush and forget to put it back in the bathroom all the time n whatnot) but I haven't been anything but respectful and nice towards my bhabhi. Same with my nand, shes not perfect but she's been, again, nice and respectful towards me. I think sometimes we confuse a person's shortcomings with being horrible people....if that makes any sense.
And don't ever let any of your family say stuff about your in-laws, it's just not right. If you expect your husband to stand up for you if anyone from his side says or does anything to you, it's only fair that you defend him and his family too.