Married ladies- console me

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Married ladies- console me

funguy is NOT roman!!!

[Mr_Bombastic]

Re: Married ladies- console me

@funguy

I say such elders should be locked in closet for a week without any food. Being elder comes with a lot of responsibility and I must say they are all acting quite ‘childish’ (pun intended). I would even go as far as calling such elders kaafirs. They are basically holding you responsible for not having children whereas in your case it really is an act of God.

Next time they bring the topic up start crying loudly and curse them out.

PS. I may not be a married lady but the rage inside me after reading this has equalled to that of one. :o

ur such a retard .. dont blame nothin but ur ignorency if u never xeeded in lyfe .. pathetic as ur SIGN IN NAME !!!

n i feeel for ya sweet heart n pray n hope they understand ur situation n i fink u need to talk to ur hunny personaly abt it .. innit ? or get ur arguements baked up by docz clinic lol atleast i know my parents are educated enough to make such a lame wish .. actualy i m sry its not lame but its like someone has to hit them with the truth … that this poor gul needs some rest .. she got to straight up some imbalances just not physicaly but emotionaly .. so let her settle down first . il pray God help u baji g

[funguy]

Re: Married ladies- console me

Mr Bombastic - what's your argument dude?. Are you saying the elders are right by bringing up the topic of her getting (or not getting ) pregnant given the circumstances she just went through?.

[Afshi]

Re: Married ladies- console me

I had the exact same problem with my inlaws..the thing is my inlaws are in pak, and me and my hubby here in canada...when i had my miscarriage my hubby and I decided not to tell them..(although for different reasons - he didnt want them to worry, and I didnt want them thinking "oh it was a miscarriage, there must be something with her...blah blah blah")...so since we ddint tell them, they would alwasy be on my back about having kids...and so one day it was getting on my nerves so i just told them about the miscarriage....but like what i was thinking, they started getting on my case about going to see a doctor, blah blah blah (which i did for that matter - but not cuz of them....)..anyways it turned out my hubby had the low sperm count...but of course we didnt tell the inlaws...and of course they were still on my back....and when i went back to pakistan, it was a nonstop bombarding of "did u see any specialist? do u want to check over here??"..augh!!! finally i coudlnt take it anymore, i jus told the mum-in-law that the problem wasnt me, it was ur son......
well lets just say ...after that im not the one getting this verbal abuse....and frankly, its no one business, but only the couple of when to have kids..im sick of the older pple (and this also includes my own mom) for asking every freakin time they see me.....
So i feel ur pain, and insha-allah we will both have happy, healthy and cute babies (hopefully from our side of the family..lol)...take care, and in the mean time..have fun trying...that is the best part ;)!