Re: Married in name only?
You’re a 32 year old educated woman who already has a full-time job. Putting aside the fact that your husband cheated and overall sounds like a loser based on what you wrote…I’m amazed that you have not left him already!
It makes me angry and sad that you have allowed you son to be around someone who is a drug addict, alcoholic, and a smoker (do yo know the health risks of 2nd hand smoking for children?!). Whether he’s their father or not is irrelevant in this particular situation.
Do you really need strangers on the internet (or anyone else including your in-laws) telling you that your son should not be around someone who’s a drug addict, alcoholic, and a smoker? Being an educated woman responsible for the well-being/safety of a 4 year old child, you can’t figure this out on your own?