Married guppies

Aejaz · June 17, 2004, 12:58am

Chandbeti,

I have known my better half since her diaper days (ok they didnt have daipers then) but I am sure you get the point.

But ours was not a love Marriage, it was an arranged Marriage, we were neighbours for like ever, and then one day we were both of marriageable ages, and our moms started looking out for spouses for us, and THANK GOD, they spoke to each other on the GOSSIP NETWORK, about their problems, and thats when it hit them in their faces, that they didnt have to search any more, (THANK GOD).

Making a long story short, I knew her likes/Dislikes, and she mine, we were engaged on 29 Oct 1989, were Married on 18 Dec 1989, its been almost 15 years now. Have 2 handsome boys Zaheer 14 and Adnaan 12, no regrets whatsoever.

And we have so much understanding that sometimes even communication is not required, just by looking at each other we know what the other person wants or needs.

Specially I just love the way she Cooks dinner for me when I am flopped on the sofa with the remote enjoying My cricket DVD’s and savouring Bufallo Wings:D

TAKING ALL THAT INTO CONSIDERATION. I CANT EVEN IMAGINE ANY OF US CHEATING ON THE OTHER.

Having said that If I ever found out that she was cheating on me, I WOULD KILL HER, CUT HER BODY INTO EATABLE SIZE PORTIONS, and start a Restaurant Business, and no one would be wiser, I have 1/2 a million insurance policy for her.

BTW Chandbeti my wife says :yukh: to you.

system · June 17, 2004, 1:49am

I would go after a 22 year old. How old are you CB?

I_M_THE_BEST · June 17, 2004, 1:58am

if i love him, i'll be happy that he's happy, but sad that i couldn't keep him hapy enough. if it's an arranged, well i'll still be happy for him, give him a few more chances i guess. if he kept up, i'd try to make him marry the other girl (2nd wife) unless i have kids, cuz then its another story. i mean if he makes the other girl pregnent, he should marry her to. divorce is real big, i don't think id take it lighlty. i would just be patient and know that my reward will come in the hereafter for being patient. ne wayz its easier said then done. and i hope i never have to know how it feels.

Aejaz · June 17, 2004, 2:02am

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if i love him, i'll be happy that he's happy, but sad that i couldn't keep him hapy enough. if it's an arranged, well i'll still be happy for him, give him a few more chances i guess. if he kept up, i'd try to make him marry the other girl (2nd wife) unless i have kids, cuz then its another story. i mean if he makes the other girl pregnent, he should marry her to. divorce is real big, i don't think id take it lighlty. i would just be patient and know that my reward will come in the hereafter for being patient. ne wayz its easier said then done. and i hope i never have to know how it feels.
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I nominate you for the upcoming SAINTHOOD!!!! or should that be HOODNESS???

sweetpac · June 17, 2004, 2:09am

Im married (for one year) and if my husband ever cheated on me ...even if I wanted to give the marriage a chance I would not be able to because marriage is such a close bond that is based on trust...cheating is the ultimate betrayal ...and I would never be able to trust him again let alone look at him the same way...so I would definately end the marriage as he would be someone I no longer trust, respect or feel secure with....maybe I would change my opinion after I have kids...but for now...thats my view!
(good question by the way its interesting to read so many different opinions)

Madhanee · June 17, 2004, 2:17am

Mine is so ugly, if she cheated, I will be honored and I will give the guy a :k:

Moodie_Foodie · June 17, 2004, 2:20am

^^ lol

sweetpac · June 17, 2004, 2:23am

that is so mean…eventhough I was laughing for a few mins after i read that!
(by the way I hope your joking)

_Tikhi_Jalebi · June 17, 2004, 3:05am

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*Originally posted by I'M THE BEST: *
if i love him, i'll be happy that he's happy, but sad that i couldn't keep him hapy enough. if it's an arranged, well i'll still be happy for him, give him a few more chances i guess. if he kept up, i'd try to make him marry the other girl (2nd wife) unless i have kids, cuz then its another story. i mean if he makes the other girl pregnent, he should marry her to. divorce is real big, i don't think id take it lighlty. i would just be patient and know that my reward will come in the hereafter for being patient. ne wayz its easier said then done. and i hope i never have to know how it feels.
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u girls r crazy!!!!!!!!!!!

ch_and-be_ii · June 17, 2004, 3:24am

sweet and all.

Well, let’s be realistic here. That ain’t possible now is it. Not everyone has the guts to kill and the brains to leave no proof.

don’t blame your cafe tendencies on your better half, I am sure she knows better than that. :-p

matty: acha? Girls fancying older men is a myth. So have a back-up plan ready..just in case. And I am a kid of the mid 80s.

devilicious: Girly, you know he won’t be sitting still while u implement yer plan. So let’s be rational here.

IM THE BEST: You seem way too fiesty to bear such nonsense.

Madhanee: LOL! if only she cud read this.

As far as I am concerned, I will divorce his ass and fight in court for the maximum possible alimony.

Moodie_Foodie · June 17, 2004, 4:26am

well aside the torture him part, the absolute truth is that it is insanely heartbreakng to find out the one person u love, the one person u have built everything with, has been or wants to be with someone else, and he might just possibly love some1 else. Its difficult to share a place in his heart with some1 else, impossible perhaps. But when it comes to love ( and My ego, personality whatever u wanna call would never allow me to) sometimes u rathar have a lil bit of place in some1 heart and might even be desperate enuf to share that space, rathar than havin no place at all..

Kaleem · June 17, 2004, 4:51am

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*Originally posted by sweetpac: *

that is so mean...eventhough I was laughing for a few mins after i read that!
(by the way I hope your joking)
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Of course he is, he himself is the ugliest looking man on the planet. He is just trying to hide his own ugliness.

MyStiCaL_MisS · June 17, 2004, 4:55am

i'll shoot him..
or will do somthing of the sort what IMTHEBEST had said..
:o

Mahnoor · June 17, 2004, 5:02am

Re: Married guppies

would you stop calling me manhoor my name is mah noor but you can call me noor like you always do and I didnt request **** so stop lying

armughal · June 17, 2004, 5:19am

what do they have divorce for????

living together in mistrust is like burning in hell....

Sandleen · June 17, 2004, 7:51am

i will kill him wid my sandals .

suroor_ca02 · June 17, 2004, 8:00am

cheat on him as well? i dont know.. if he can have all the fun, y shudnt i?

Degas · June 17, 2004, 8:04am

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cheat on him as well? i dont know.. if he can have all the fun, y shudnt i?
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.. so u will wait to find out that hes cheating first.. what about u never found out and missed all the fun?

The_new_COOLDUDE · June 17, 2004, 8:37am

I'd first find out her side of the story,wht was her reason for cheating?
If I lacked in any sort of way, or she just couldn't control her self.

If she is able to present a suitable argument and sincerely regrets what she did,I may give our marriage a chance.

PS: Alot of golddiggers on this board. :D

KAKA-ATOM-BUM · June 17, 2004, 9:49am

i dont think i could ever take that.... I dont really know what i,d do. I hope i dont do something stupid like killing her n then killing myself.

i dont know,, i guess i,ll just leave her... n never marry again.