married girls will u wana work after marrige specially when your hubby is making good enough money and providing u everything very well…completing your needs…shopping,hoteling..giving u enough money as pocket money…etc (not to mention u have to manage house chores aswell if still wana work)
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so one only work for money? no self satisfaction by sense of achievement? 
you look too young to get married … jaoo langree-pala ya pithoo garam khailoo shabash
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I like my work, but it would be nice to know if I ever got fired or laid off, or sued, I have another person to rely on. I don't think I would stop. Maybe if I felt like I wasn't getting enough time to spend with my kids watching them grow, I might switch to part-time or move to volunteer work, or fudge my schedule somehow.
But, no, that extra money I earn can just go into their future, into paying to support my parents, etc. That money will probably get wisely used for someone in the family that needs it.
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^ wouldnt u want to use that extra money or save it to help out ur own offspring?
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Yea i would still like to work! I think its important for self-fulfillment...and it will keep me out of trouble!
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I would still work.......i have put in a lot of effort to get my degree and I know that I will always want to use the education that my parents have been able to give me... but I probably wouldn't be as gung ho about advancing in my career (and i.e. make more money). I wouldn't be going out of my way putting in more hours and working weekends to impress my boss and such. Whatever income I bring in.... would be sufficient. :)
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Yes, I'll defo work IA, I'd get bored otherwise..
I would still work.......i have put in a lot of effort to get my degree and I know that I will always want to use the education that my parents have been able to give me... but I probably wouldn't be as gung ho about advancing in my career (and i.e. make more money). I wouldn't be going out of my way putting in more hours and working weekends to impress my boss and such. Whatever income I bring in.... would be sufficient. :)
so true
i do enough to keep my job.. so i complete tasks beforehand if need being to show that i do want to be here, but i dont work extra hours or anything cus i do have a child to go home to...
But having said that, once the kid(s) are school age going, im definately looking into getting another degree... not to make mroe money, just to do something that ive always wanted..
are you queer multi..
u r replying exactly like him:smilestar:
queer who?
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A lot of time and money has gone in to my education and I don't plan on becoming reliant on my husband until I have at least done my bit towards our future. I want to work to create a better future for us, and luckily my fiance is understanding of this.
Obviously when and if Allah blesses us with a family of our own (inshallah) I would be more than willing to work less or leave work if we can afford for me to do so.
If money was no issues and we were multi-millionnaires I would still want to do something with my time, even if it was working from home or managing my own company. Why waste the skills if you have them? I think it's stupid for girls to study like crazy and then when they get married throw it all down the drain. If you don't plan to work when you get married then let someone else have that seat in the lecture theatre.
Hah!! I would stop working today if money was not an issue and I would homeschool my kids and travel all over the world (traveling provides great educational opportunities for kids). Then when they get old enough, I would send them off to college and play video games ALL DAY. :p