married/engaged people

Lifestyle Relationships
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what do you do when you are stressed out PLUS TO THAT your partner is being so much pessimist and talking all negative and gloomy things…you can’t leave him/her alone. and accompanying him/her make you feel more and more sick…:hmmm:

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abhi se pessimist…tou saari life kaise guzreygi:bummer:

I say leave him/her :hoonh:

PS: kidding :cb:

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Easy , breezy dump him/her. There is plenty of good fish in this pond of human beings

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I was never in that situation but I guess I will help my wife out in such situation and put my stress on back burner.

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rishty nibhaye jaty hain…khatam nai kiye jaye :stuck_out_tongue:

what if that fish too isn’t according to your wishes…:hmmm:

:k:
but how would you help her?by letting her speak out her tension or what???

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Then there is something wrong with you , seek professional help to find out what is wrong with you.

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good suggestion :k:

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isilie mainey likha tha ki i was kidding:naraz:

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Kidding is reserved only for cafe , in Life 1 , serious mozoo’aat per guftagoo hoti hay aur serious advice dee jati hay. :silly:

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awww :hugz: naraz mat ho princess…

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jaa rahi hoon :barbie:

:hugz:

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If the problem is serious, yes we discuss it. If its not worthy of sweating over, I try to take her mind off that.

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:mirch:

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:smack2: so u just wanted to use ur smiley :cb:

okkk okkk..now im really out of here before im pusehd out :bummer:

:waves:

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If you are married , it is different situation.
Why deal with lot of baggage if it is just a relationship .

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A commitment is a commitment. You cant quit a relationship just because your partner is depressed about something.

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so true :k:

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It is not a committal relationship , it is preparation for that commitment and if a partner has lot of baggage and is overloading other party with that baggage ,then it is wise to look for someone with less or no baggage.
I am assuming that OP has tried to help the other person already ,but seems that OP is now looking for a way out, but he/she is reluctant and feels guilty.

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@ LP: yeh life 1 thread hai. :smilestar: you can do fun in cafe.

@ WAI: Let your partner know that you have concern and you can not tolerate it anymore.