yes love is not shown by the amount of work you do for some1 . some ppl are active by nature and some are lazy . some do things quickly , others don’t .
your mother is infact messing up things , by telling you not to make him dependant .
if you can do things easily and your sister does not , it’s urs and her nature .
it’s not the love of the husbands.
i believe love should always be unconditional .