do you know that your spouse watches porn? what is your reaction to it?
have you ever watched it together? do you think that it weakens or strengthens your relationship when you are open about such things?
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I would prescribe this to ur wifes friend and her husband from (can you live in such a situation?) thread. It might calm the guy down.
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^ Lol. Epic! :D
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holy - what kind of topic is this?
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18+ 
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"but hun, why are they soooo big? "
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“have you ever watched it together? do you think that it weakens or strengthens your relationship when you are open about such things?”
i mean are you serious ??
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whats wrong with this topic? cant you people discuss it in an adult way? or it is always that desis will forever prohibit themselves about anything that has anything remotely to do with sex?
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I watch it with my husband all the times. Oh wait, you said porn, I thought you asked if we watch Geo News together. Aw man.
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I wud back Shahreyaar on this one, First Islamically its wrong, unless its for learning purposes (i cud be wrong here). 2ndly even if couples chooses to do it; discussing what happens in ur bedroom isnt really being adult, its rather being childish. What next, discussing the positions in an adult way ?
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whats wrong with this topic? cant you people discuss it in an adult way? or it is always that desis will forever prohibit themselves about anything that has anything remotely to do with sex?
Firstly, I'm pretty sure married couples don't prohibit themselves from things related to sex. After all, look at our desi population.
Secondly, what a married couple does in the privacy of their homes (including the choice to watch or not watch porn) is between the two of them. WHY do you want them to discuss it here? Why is it any of your business whether or not other married couples watch porn?
Maybe you and your wife are perfectly ok with discussing your sex life with others (although I find it interesting that you chose not to answer your own question so far).....but if other's aren't so excited about doing the same....that doesn't make us immature.
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just because its an online forum ppl cant see you, does not mean you can have such uncivilized discussions
i personally consider this particular one as uncivilized, hence my objection
whats wrong with this topic? cant you people discuss it in an adult way? or it is always that desis will forever prohibit themselves about anything that has anything remotely to do with sex?
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He does not.
Will never watch it together or not. Eww its Gunnah.
Your second question is like asking someone if they drink alcohol together or not or do they do any other haram thing together or not. I don't see how anything that 's not allowed in Islam can make a relationship stronger if not weaker.
I do however knew someone who mentioned that they occasionally watch it together to spice things up. Its a different thing that I started avoiding that person after what she told me.
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were you worried she'd invite you to watch a matinee or something?
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^ Do you really think I would want to associate with people who in my views have entered the creeper zone, forget about it being not Islamic. What's next, she is discussing her behind the door escapades with me. No thank you. I'll rather stay away from such people.
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It's haram. Islamically.
Wtaching alone or together.
Also discussing these kinds of things is also something that's frowned upon.
Not resepctable.
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I know a woman who wears a hijab, has recently been to umrah and posts ahadiths on her facebook profile every single day. but i also know that she had been dating/sleeping around with two guys simultaneously.
I know another guy who always have hadiths on his facebook profile too. he too changes his girlfriends every six months or so and always have sexual relations with them.
I know another woman who wanted to be near someone but he was married, so to complete her "tharak" she would call him Bhai.
and these not the only cases that i know of. there are numerous others where the morality we preach does not necessarily is in sync with the morality that we follow.
so much for our online morality. I am sure the guys who have been writing "its against Islam" etc would never watch porn.
can it get any more hypocritical than that?
"there are two kinds of moralities. one that we preach but never follow. other that we follow but never preach"--Bertrand Russel
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^ buddy, whats your point?
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"there are two kinds of moralities. one that we preach but never follow. other that we follow but never preach"--Bertrand Russel
right ..........
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What is Porn 
I’ve heard about Pop Corn but this 