Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.

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dreams are stupid, just bits of fluff stuck between your ears

I had a dream the other day that my own umee jee was chasing me around the house with a bloody knife, trying to kill me!

woke up in time though, and my umee jee was in my room and I gave her a big hug :)

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Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.

PARTYGUYS LOLZ :rotfl:

rocky …itna kuch tu samjha dia ab aur kitna ajhein yaar…
try to watch different movies b4 nyt horror once :hehe: ull get nightmares or no sleep at al lwese bh iaj kal ur alone lolzzz

or this cud be the reason ur alone n thts y ur missing “tht” presence .

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Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.

you need to triple F.

Fix up with your ex. F your ex. Forget your ex

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it aint FuNnY:p

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I just had a dream last night again. I was good for about a few weeks and it came back again :( This time it was her leaving a bag of all the things I've bought for her (rings, earrings, etc..) and walking away slowly. I was trying to tell her to stop but she wouldn't listen and kept on walking but finally stopped and left me a note on the floor saying I will love you forever and for always.

it broke my heart... here i am today w/ another **ty day cuz i'm so sensitive when it comes ot her

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Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.

Maybe subconciously you feel that there are still too many unresolved issues between you, particularly if it was a bad breakup. Did you take time afterwards to reflect on it, or did you marry fairly soon after? Unfortunately you really can't spend a lot of time dwelling on it, because that just isn't fair to your wife. Maybe the two of you need a weekend vacation or you need to find a way to work through your feelings. Do you have an old friend you could talk to about this without your wife learning about it?

*omg, I just read this and it is such a feminine touchy-feely reply - yuck - I wish i had a better response for you!

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^^ nothing to feel yucky about, i'm a real guy with a real problem :) However, I did discuss it with my wife but she simply say's it'll be okay soon don't worry.

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It only tells me that your relationships ended with a good note or they weren't a horror to be in. Perhaps things didn't workout because you were growing up or found someone else. So at a subconscious level you still have something to say to your past. And your dreams only represents your subconscious state of mind.

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Hey Rockistan, did praying the ayatul kursi and 4 quls help? Have you stopped having dreams about her? Or are they still going on? Has this affected your marriage? I'm asking because trust me I have dreams about everything and it drives me crazyyyy!!!!

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Hey rocky,

I studied dreams in my psych class. Dreams are your brain's way of organizing what has been going on in your life, but sometimes your brain mixes things up. For example, lets say you used to live in Miami a couple years ago but moved to New York and have a presentation at work (in NY) next week. In your dream, you are going to work giving the presentation but you're in the same house as Miami and all your co-workers are people you knew from miami, but when you wake up, you know your dream was really about New York. For you, you said certain things happened in your dream involving a past gf. This means nothing about your gf, it can be your brain confusing your gf and your wife because both memories were stored in the same area of the brain or something. Don't worry, you probably really dreamt about your wife, and the gf coming in your dream was a mixup by your brain.

And about your second dream, you're overthinking the first one, and now you are actually thinking about her. So please realize that you have a clear conscience, and stop feeling guilty and making things worse for yourself.

This is why I do not like relationships before marriage. If the relationship doesnt work out, you have a big attachment to someone that may fade to the background but doesn't fully go away...

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^^ Jeez SU - where did you dig this one up??

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I think this is perfectly normal. You don't forget your past relationships, but you can still move on happily.

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LOL. Jaanwar, let’s just say I had a dream that this thread was screaming to be bumped. :halo: I am like a dream machine :hmmm:

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There are times when you scare me SU.

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Jaanwar, dude, it's supposed to be the other way around, I'm supposed to be afraid of jaanwars :D

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Well, I always say I dont bite - and I always manage to control the urge to add “unless you are into that sort of thing”.

One decent Jaanwar I am!

:hehe:

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Wah! Wah! I can’t help but admire your decency Jaanwar. :lajawab:

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^ Oh of course SU, not many can resist that.

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Well, do you have something to feel guilty about? Did you two end on a bad note or something?

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I don't think anyone can ever forget their past - esp. if you fell in love with that person.

(Remember ONLY this is possible: It's easy to forget "others" in our lives whom we did not fall in love with - but they may have been in love with you... but you will NEVER forget someone who had touched your soul and for whom you felt - the reason you even existed)