married but speaking to ex

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The girl is married but is speaking to ex boyfriend. She is not happy with her husband and has a baby.
Ex boyfriend is interested still to get married to the girl.
The girl is chrating to her husband.
What if she takes divorse?
Will the ex marry her?
How should she test her ex?
Is he just trying to take reveng?
What should she do?
Is she doing wrong or right?

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Why didnt the Ex marry her when he had the chance?

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Is this like a new StarPlus drama? The dude had the chance to marry have before right? But decided not to? So he's a bit of a homewrecker? And this girl thinks she will be happy with him? Erm okay; how do we know he isn't chatting to more birds as he wrecks her home?

An EX is an EX for a reason. She should run in the opposite direction. If she isn't happy with her husband then she should either figure out what makes her happy and have to achieve it-going back to an ex isn't the only way she should consider moving on and finding a man who will make her happy and well isn't an ex.

You cannot 'test' someone to see how faithful etc they are being. That's all in the dramas.

That poor baby doesn't deserve any of this crap. Tell the 'GIRL' to act like an adult. This isn't a filmset; she has a family. If she isn't happy needs to work through things. Talking to another man NEVER helps PERIOD.

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married but speaking to ex

The girl had cheated her ex not the guy.

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That is not cool..i mean i am sure she knows it is not right however to give a woman benefit of a doubt...may be she isnt happy with her husband. Messed up situation.
In one of my close friend's situation..it was my friend's ex girlfriend who contacted him after 2 years when she was married. He had to politely tell her off..not to contact him anymore. So maybe..fella needs to tell this girl not to contact him.

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The girl isn't loyal to anyone it seems.
Fickle minded.

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This is WRONG, period.
once she has said yes to marry another man who is now her husband then she has no excuse to still continue with her ex.
if she was so involved with her ex then she shouldn't have married another guy and cheat him.
and if she isn't happy with her husband then she must first do a reality check and see if the reason of her unhappiness is her ex or her husband? the way she is still continuing with her ex even after her marriage and a baby, her unhappiness might just be because of her own self.

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Hum Dil De Chukay Sanam version 2013!

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Is the girls' husband also perving on girls' sister?

Only victim is the baby....stuck with idiot parents.

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Oh dear Lord it's the same drama. I had to look over OPs previous posts.

So OP let's cut to the chase. Are we saying the girl (erm I think it was you) husband perved on his SIL and it went down like a heap of hotrocks on a warm summers day. So this girl is now thinking hhhmmmmm I fancy a change of scenery.

It seems to me that said girl is simply fickle and really cannot make up her own mind about what she wants to do with her life. Perhaps the hubby perving was all in her head?

Sara is right the only victim is that poor child with such planks for parents.

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married but speaking to ex

Girl had to leave her ex because she was in such a situation by her family that she had to get married. The ex didnt realise her sitauation and was asking her to wait for few years.

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Sorry for typo i am on my cell.

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Also, it's OK to say "me/my husband/my ex/etc" than make it a 3rd party thing. Own up to your issues.

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Sorry to tell you guys but its not me doing this ****. Its my friend about whom i had mentioned before.

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Erm but wasn't it your husband perving on your sister in the previous posts? You started those off as the situ being about someone else? Or maybe I'm confused.

Reha is one popular chick! I need some of that =)

Okay so if your friends family put her in an awkward situation then whats stopping them doing it again/now? Families rarely change their ways.

Plus if he didn't bother fighting for her I would doubt he's bothered.

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As you are such a carrying friend I would suggest you get the guys number and call him with these questions. Or better still get his email address and send him a link to this thread. In all honesty apart from HIM noone can actually answer the above. Your friend needs to think about that innocent child in all this.

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married but speaking to ex

Thanks to all
Will try to explain her or will make her read this post.
:)
May be something goes in her mind.

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By "cheated" do you mean that she was involved with another guy besides the ex..or..do you mean that she didn't marry him because her parents were in a hurry? The latter isn't cheating. However, if it was the former then she's repeating the same mistake with her husband; she's cheating on him. And it also shows that the ex has no regard for another man.

If she wants to work on her marriage, then she needs to stop talking to the ex so she can examine where her marriage needs work. Urge her to think about what's lacking and to fix it, before rushing to break up a family.

If she's hinging the divorce only on remarriage to ex, she's not thinking clearly about her or her kid's future. She needs to consider whether she can handle all the consequences of life after divorce including the possibility of not marrying the ex, to supporting herself, to the well-being/development of her child, etc. Your list should include more important questions like this instead of only having questions that hinge everything on the ex...who cannot provide a guarantee.

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Ok, seriously, If she is not happy in this relationship then she should just get out of it and move on. If she is testing the waters to see what’s out there if she gets a divorce then that’s just wrong. She is cheating on her husband and talking to her ex who she cheated on. And in all this drama no one will suffer as much as the baby.

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Darlin, this sounds like emotional infidelity. She's unhappy with her current situation and the only reason she's talking to her ex is that she wants to reel the ex in. To me, it's all wrong. Trying to line another marriage up before this one has ended is all wrong. It doesn't matter that the husband is a complete A****** who flirts with her sister and every other woman, etc.