Re: Married and then what?
Looking for someone to marry should be about looking for a partner for life. So find someone who wants a similarly active lifestyle. I know plenty of couples, who, even after multiple kids, go out, traipse about the city, etc etc. They are very active because they want to be. Other couples are comfortable in a quieter lifestyle. As long as each partner is content, it's fine. You can make your marriage what you want it to be, but you need to be willing to talk openly to your partner and to respect and show understanding toward her/his desires.