Married and then what?

Again hitting some people the wrong way, I see. My colleague can go home and do whatever he wants, but he shouldn't be complaining to me about the lack mobility in his career. I used to respect this person until he turned into a real whiner. If I were in his position, I'd make my choice and stand by it.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with my attitude, most guys who have multiple priorities and goals feel the same way, either they're too scared to say it or are denying it altogether.

See I'm going to sound super conceited here but that is not my intention: Yes, I do believe in marriage and simultaneously fear a change for the worst...whats more? I have multiple options when it comes to women but don't want to pursue them because I don't think I am ready. That is my reality.

Thank you for the hate :)