And he comes back with more of the same!
Owning your own place, stamping your passport and posting on GS about your halal randezvous dont make your life fun or exciting. In actuality, it seems as if you're tired of your mundane passport-stamping marathon. So now you're looking at marriage...but you also seem to think you're really really cool. However, you dont want some random girl to come and take away your cool-factor.
When you're in a happy marriage, your focus shifts from useless things to things you want with your partner. All of a sudden, his and her towels start to look better then your passport - which only symbolizes all the things you did to fill your empty life. The friends you used to surround yourself with no longer seem as exciting as they once were...in fact you start to almost despise the partying routine because it now looks so lame - I have yet to understand the attraction in clubs that reek of smoke, people puking alcohol, picking up random women/men, dancing to crappy music, surrounded by unattractive people who cant get a date normally most of which will still be there 10 years from now, etc. Traveling on a moment's notice to Ibiza doesnt hold as much value to my BIL as spending that moment with his daughter...the little girl he gets to see only 3 hours a day. Things change when you meet the right person but until that happens...owning your own place, Ibiza and the passport will seem exciting to you.
You dont know what you're missing until you have experienced it.
Wow, you spend way too much time analyzing my life, but its all good. I don't find my life to be empty at all, its pretty sad you would to try to bring someone down when they are extremely satisfied with their current situation. I mean I am not here to complain about my mother in law or the fact that I suspect my fiance to be cheating or what not. I am not here to say that my life is horrible or I am in some abusive relationship, and you guys can't handle it.
But I'll be real: I do fear that married or even things in the future will change my AMAZING life and not for the better. I don't want to have these issues of being bored in marriage.
You talk about happy marriages? What % of marriages would be truly happy. Obviously this is not a scientific survey throw out a number.