Married and then what?

Hold up. I come here once in a while during some downtimes at work and you equate that with seeking approval? I don't even know you people so pile on the hate :)

I never stated that married life was dull for all, it's the case for many. Staying young and active should not be limited by how old you actually might be. There should be no reason for one to stop pursuing their interests.

As for the comment on hanging out with friends, it's called socializing and in the case of work related social situations, it works wonders. You don't even know how many times I was promoted over the poor fellow who "wanted to go home and have intimate moments with his spouse." hey those are his choices right? So why complain about them later.