So its all another woman's fault right ?
You seemed to be giving too much credit to the boys' mummies, and that's what I was addressing. However don't push your luck. It's the responsibility of both parents. A mother can only do so much. Surely a FATHER should demonstrate to his son what decent behavior looks like and how women should be treated. A mother can teach. A father (since he shares the boy's gender) should demonstrate. The foundation should be set before the bacha becomes baligh.