married 46ers

they are so set in their ways. own particular nice things, have a great satisfying career, fashion their spouse a specific way, are blessed with nice kids, have a great way of easy going social conversation, but when they are asked about their married life and its success, they dont know what to say. why is this?

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because may be sometimes, some feelings are beyond the words. Mere words can not really encompass the actual feelings... perhaps?

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they say ALhamdolillah bas guzar gai achi:phati:

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what is a 46er?
is it 50% l33t that u are writing?

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Sorry wrong number :clown:

ha ha. fraudia bhai, aap ko tow pata hona chiyeye apni age ka :>

:clown:sorry, it was never dialed. :clown:

Doesn’t take long if interested :@:

hahaha I am not 46, I am 88 years old

exactly, they are so round about about it that it is not even funny. but indeed, mashallah, good men always recall their spouse and kids in their talk and are very clear about who can say what to them.

Most of them just pretend to be a happy couple and in reality they aint ….

just because someone has a successful married life does not make one an expert, and sometimes what they have to say is too simple of an answer for people to digest because the people asking the question think a successful marriage needs some complicated formula of compatibility and empirically based division of chores, iron clad roster of duties and protocols etc.

:)

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there you go, kamal bhai, amazing reply.
the protocol and roster sounds like my appointment to be a researcher and a professor. :>

marriages are not protcols, and research studies, are they? as there are so many delicate and vulnerable relationships involved and contingent on marriages, i suppose...

yet, your anology's responsibilty emphasis, does make absolute sense. :>

no no, you are not 88. i know that. but you might be 44. :>
no doubling allowed!!

44? mujhe TLK samjha hua hai kya?

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of course, Tariq bahi is much much younger than you are! :>

ager aap kee umr ka takaza yeye heye keye app ka signature aap ka nahi hona chiyeye, tow mujheye yeye andaza heye, keye aap 40 meye hee hein - good parking, right?. :>

Coz some times they dont know it themselves. Being together for long time does no equate as a successful marriage.

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nope in my 30s for the next few years. I am 37.
but i can pass for 44..
all the sharab, charas, etc has not been good for my health

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then, that is n problem. if you would like and can give it a try, i am sure, you will find better healthier substitutes for drinks and drugs.

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but i like sharab. been regularly drinking it since I was just a kid
sharab burtuqaal, sharaab tufaah especially.
oops and diod i say charas, sory i meant chanas, u know garbanzos