Marriages/weddings/nikkah Just A Legal Contract?

so others are blind and need a piece of paper to really believe that you're in love?
so ultimately, all us humans want is to be accepted by others? if we don't provide them with evidence, then they won't accept us?
marriage, nikkah or whatever is just to seal the deal...and only has to do with the state/religion. it also gives couples a sense of security.