marriage

[Illuminate]

Re: marriage

@Life01

I think that’s the thing. Some people are happy with people for a few years then they get bored and want someone else. maybe that’s why marriages end even though these people have spend almost a lifetime together . Or idk maybe that’s just a simplistic way of looking at it.

I think marriage is a great risk to take. Especially because people can change or just deceive . So it’s not possible to live alone and be happy ?

But we’re changing all the time. Our interests and personalities are ever-evolving. Wouldn’t it be exciting watching the person you care about the most growing with you? The couple has to work to make the marriage exciting by trying new things and keeping the mystery alive.

Being vulnerable in marriage is intense but sometimes I think it has to do more with how much you trust yourself rather than how much you can trust the other person. And without being vulnerable and trusting the other person you can never feel deep love.