Re: marriage
You know lifey , if you look for someone whose like you , you will never find them . Coz Allah made us all unique and different. A lot of compromises at both end , but mostly the females are asked of doing it , is what promises a good , healthy , strong relationship.
Trust me even when people are alike , its never too easy . If someone tells you it is , then dont believe them. Just like how there is nothing in this world that comes free. Similarly there is nothing that seems good and is easy.
you will have to give up a lot of your self in the beginning to set base to the right relationship, you will have to let go of your own wishes and needs but eventually you will realize that it will all start coming back to you , your needs and wishes will become an important element in the marriage. No one should sacrifice these for ever . but putting them in the back end for a little while for the bigger benefit is absolutely worth it