Re: marriage
Unconditional love is a very rare thing even parents hardly have unconditional love for children, in desis I have seen if one daughter is fair they love her more over the dark one. If one child is a doctor they love him more over the Bcomm boy.
I teach my staff to build emotional credits with clients you treat them amazing when you didnt screw up and they will forgive you when you did screw up.
Attraction is mostly emotional, my wife was amazingly beautiful when younger and because of the strength of the relationship I find her even more attractive after 20 yrs of marriage.
Trick is to work hard on the relationship on a daily basis, tell your partner every day you love him, do nice things for him, compliment him and the bond grows stronger and not weaker.
If you say mean things to each other than the bond keeps growing weaker, when I left the gori beech after 7 years I didn’t miss her for 7 seconds, with my current wife I cant live a day without seeing her smile.
There is nothing random about change you have the power to change it for good,