marriage

[gudiaali]

Re: marriage

@Illuminate

But we’re changing all the time. Our interests and personalities are ever-evolving. Wouldn’t it be exciting watching the person you care about the most growing with you? The couple has to work to make the marriage exciting by trying new things and keeping the mystery alive.

Being vulnerable in marriage is intense but sometimes I think it has to do more with how much you trust yourself rather than how much you can trust the other person. And without being vulnerable and trusting the other person you can never feel deep love.

We are changing all the time,that’s correct and that also bring up the question how much you are certain that your spouse will love/like the changes coming in you. Be it changes in terms of physical appearance or intellectual level. i have seen the case where the wife had lost her hair on the crown side due to some illness and the husband started to feel embarrassed to take her out. Also, he became less intimate towards her and the relationship completely gone sour. It is cases like these that make me doubt the claims of unconditional love in marriages.