Marriage

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Re: Marriage

@Mamaof3

The single word that describes the perfect marriage is PARTNERSHIP! This implies mutual respect, mutual admiration, mutual goals whatever they may be.

I completely agree.

@snickers

What if the partners are not good friends and they lack understanding and security and dont get along that very well (guzaara). What can they do in order to promote and develop these missing things?

Well I don’t think you can force yourself to become friends with someone if you two just don’t get along for whatever reason.

If you have been married for at least a few years, and you’re not good friends with u’r spouse, lack understanding/security, don’t get along that well, then after a few YEARS of trying, why would you keep on being married to that person? To make society happy? It’s certainly not good for any kids in that marriage. Because when a couple “lacks understanding” and “don’t get along that very well”, there will be regular arguments in the house, and there will definately be tension whenever both are together. And believe me, children aren’t that stupid…they can sense when their parents are unhappy together.