There is no need to explain anything. 
Just look at the picture.
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I think you just called everyone's spouse a donkey. :-/
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I think you just called everyone's spouse a donkey. :-/
No dont take me wrong, but i think all those couples, not going well with their relationship are just like donkies, they focus on everything else but ignore the main thing. They end up being a big joke. I dint post this pic in humor section cause if you take it little seriously its really not a joke.
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I was j/k. I understood the sentiment of the pic. =)
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U do ???
Ok then prove it. Tell why I have mentioned wife on the left and husband on the right
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I said I understood the sentiment, not that I analyzed it and wrote a paper on it.
The sentiment to me is that you can accomplish more things when you do them together instead of pulling each other in different directions.
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hmm right… thats right 
but there is also one thing important in that pic, can you tell what that is
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letter g is missing for both gadha and gadhi. 
j/k
it is 
between them
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Hhahaha i just did that to create confusion , try to focus on the donkeys.
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Awww that was really nice - a picture really is worth a thousand words! I totally agree with that actually. Pre-marriage you are used to living as an independent unit, but once you realise you are sharing your life with another person you need to make adjustments. I am slowly learning this with my hubby-to-be :) what a lovely pic!
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glad you like it and good luck with your relation, wish you more and more success on each and every step of your life 
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ofoh, we have one gadha at gs too, please dont create curiosity and explain all things about them. 
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After falling in love, they go to wife’s side first
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the letters on the side are pretty misleading. :\
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Ok dont be angry :). now i want you to look at the pic once more and notice that the donkey on the left side is holding tail higher than the right one, usually wives are the one crying out loud first and have high ego compare to husbands, in the start
2nd thing the right donkey was the one who compromised in the first place in F-pic . Generally thats the way it usually happens husband do follow their wives in the start of their relationship (nae naveli dulhan) 
and at the by passing of time they start making wife follow them the rest of the life.
this is the way i see this pic
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Hay your pretty good 
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the letters on the side are pretty misleading. :\
sorry about that ;)
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In the beginning if wife sacrifice, she would take him to her way later in life.
edit: It should not either his way or her way. both should mature and understand which way is better and best for them.
In desi culture, it is not like you posted. Majority of gals are expected to follow the set norms of in-laws, at least first few years.
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right you are, this is not fix theory for everyone but generally things go this way. regarding what you said about her way or his way, usually female after marriage move to their husband place…right. So its like leaving one country and entering another and its a big change for females. so usually females are really disturb in the start of marriage, and its really hard for them to change in one day. Mostly females do mistake of applying everything by their ways, now sensibly its like a Pakistani coming to America and expecting Americans will follow Pakistani rules because he/she came from Pakistan. So thats the biggest reason of conflict. But as it is also a general truth that females a weak when it comes on mind power compare to males, so males can easily change their minds by love and the more love they give the more she forgets about herself and at the end leaves her ways of living and live by the rules of her husband.
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I think its totally the otherway round :D