initiator;
u know y it matters?
now i am not trying to offend anyone here so plezz dont take offence but iv experienced this myself so this is y iam saying it and iv seen this amoongst so many paksitnais.
i think a big reason that rich people usually dont marry their childrne 2 poor chlidrne or those with lesser wealth is becasue there is A LOT of JEALOUSY that goes on especially between relatives but also acquaintances nd freidns! nd most ppl in paksitan do marry into thier relatives. ppl who r jealous of u may not be very diret in showing this on the outside but 4rom the inside some of hte m r fuming and such people can really become ziddi and dangerous.
nd soemtimes it s bcs those with less wealth r really greedy and hungry for the luxurious lifestyle that they beleive comes with wealth. instaed of working hard themselves they just want to sit and enjoy on other people's money. especially whe n its relative then they think that htey have some kind of 'haq' on their dolath or jaidath
im not saying all lower/middle class people r lik e this but seom of htem r. and its really a pain 2 deal with these type of people bcs they just make an assumption about u if ur well off. it doesnt matter what u do or dont do, if ur nice or not. they alwayz have in the back of their mind 'yeh log apne aap ko samajte kia heh?' they twist ur inniocent remarks into soemthing evil and hten try 2 get back nad u and torture u. nd if dont torture u theyre always snotty and tryihing to put u down.
and u cant even talk 2 them about their behaviour/jealousy nad what hteyre doing bcs that ll just make things owrse. so u see its not as black and white as u guyz think. if its 2 upper class fmailes who r doing rishta wiht eacother chances r that theyre not jealous of eachother, at least not in this department and a lot of problems can b avoided.
again plleeez no on e take offense, i know a lot of ppl /families who r nothat ameer r not like this. khuch not so rich amileis bhi bohot khudaar aur shareef log hote hain. but what ive described above happens A LOT amongst paksitanis in paksitan and aborad.
**Both Families should be close to each others Economic/Financial Status......why make the biggest reason for arguments in any Marriage.....Money.........more worse...........:(
Islam recommends a balanced Nisaab also..........Right?
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