For me, personally I would feel a bit wierd if my husband already had everything prior to me walking into his life. I wouldnt feel like any of his things are mine. I actually want US (I know, Im crazy) to earn/build our lives together. I want to help him because at that point, I can really feel like its a marriage and Im not some trophy wife. Kwim?
If he has already accomplished all of his goals by the time I meet him, it feels like he is just using me to complete his pretty little picture. I hope Im making sense here. The perfect education, house, car, parents, job and now all I need is a pretty wife!
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