Re: marriage?... Interesting question.
I have to admit, I like this chick. Keeps me laughing most of the time.
Me too dude. 
m fine.. Religion and going to gym and making myself bz with studies helped me... MAY ALLAH HELP ME. AMEEN.. THANKS GUYS..
^ I agree.
Off topic maybe, but i'm shocked by the amount of girls i see my niece's age (around 23) that have nothing to do, are bored with their job, so decide to get married. then divorce cos they don't like it. then re-marry!!! Where is the sanctity of Marriage?? Why is it not taken seriously amongst these infants!!! Why do they think it's a game of monopoly or something!!
Ok, rant over.
Gori/French or desi?
It took lots of courage and Allah's help for me to be where I am today.... I am fine.. praying helps me alot. I JUST NEED TO ACCEPT THE REALITY AND I DID IT WITH MY HEART/soul AND BRAIN...... HOW ABOUT I WORK ON OTHER DREAMS?....YEAH.. THANKS GUYS.. It was just like a major loss of my life.
Re: marriage?... Interesting question.
It seems you're on the right track, Coolgirl. It takes time to move on. Moving on is easier said than done....but it's not impossible. Once you start to accept the situation, and limit contact with your cousin, and keep yourself busy with healthy activities, and turn to Allah for help....things will fall into place. Best wishes!