Very good advice but I wish more people would stand up to family pressure before making the commitment, the nice thing to do would be to at least compensate the brides family for any and all expenses, since they are the injured party..also in classy people parting gift is a good idea, maybe she wants to immigrate, ask her if she would like that and you can help her immigrate, but you definitely can not marry someone you can’t love, she needs to be with a man who will love her, this won’t be fair to her also.