Re: Marriage? how to make it work?
I don’t believe unconditional love is healthy in a marriage, that kind of love is only for the beings that grew in your womb for 9 months.
Love is conditional, it is on the condition that your spouse meets all of their religious obligations in marriage, otherwise you just become a walk over. Men like to push the limits, test your love and see how much they can get away with. The more you give selflessly the more they will take selfishly! (Don’t take it personal, most men are emotional leeches by nature) Just set the ground rules from the start make sure you are both clear on your expectations of each other and deal with issues as they arise don’t fester.