Re: Marriage help!...
Thanks, so maybe something like that should get me started,,,but can i ask should i feel ashamed or would it affect my self-respect, if you know what i am trying to get at because im only 21 and i don't know what to think and how to go about issues like this.
i dont think you should feel ashamed at all--- you are adults who are considering choosing a partner for life, its not a game and pride should not be given weight. as far as self-respect goes--- i think the fact that you are considering someone again, despite the fact that it may hurt or embarrass you, because you are looking out for your future and the well being of your future marriage is really commendable, it shows you have self respect!