marriage for young guys

X2 · July 19, 2008, 9:00pm

qibla...u think at 28-29 guys lose all errr interest in sex?
hahahahah
yaaaar u are too funny

citrine · July 19, 2008, 9:03pm

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lol^^

restless_soul · July 20, 2008, 12:36am

Thank you so much everyone... Your help is really appreciated...

ShiningStar · July 20, 2008, 12:46am

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Teenager hotay hi shadi kar saktay hain aur karna bhi chahyay warna shaitan peechay par jata hai.

Shadi kay liaay koi umr ki qaid naheen jub aap munsaib samajhain tu kar lain gunah say bachna ziada bahtar hai.

restless_soul · July 20, 2008, 10:12am

yes, you are right...

it all depends how much supportive your parents are... and other things too...

Orpheus · July 22, 2008, 12:52am

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...don't care about the sins and marry at 28, i am. :D

Shikra · July 22, 2008, 1:34am

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When I got married, the imam was giving a lecture to singles there and he said the one who can't control his desires, ussey chahiye k rozey rakhey :D (The one who can't control himself should fast).

Princess_Fiona · July 22, 2008, 3:04am

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My rule of thumb.. I guy/girl should not marry until she or he is done with their education.. for guys especially done with studies, job a good job and completely settled down.. then think of marriage before tat i would be a bit of ahem ahem…
and to control those freaken hormones, come on dude give me a break.. Arghhh No comment

ShiningStar · July 22, 2008, 7:27am

Parents ko patana koi mushkil naheen hota bus daikhna chahyay kay unki jaan totay kay kis hissay main atki hai.

Samjhaya bhujha bhi jaa sakta hai.

Main nain to nikal liaa tha kaisay apnay parents ko apni marzi pay chalana hai per kabhi uska faida naheen uthaya.

ShiningStar · July 22, 2008, 7:31am

Education ki hud kia ho gi sis???

You are talking like materialist.

Good education, Good job and completly settled down.

yay saray kaam shadi kay saath saath bhi chal saktay hain.

Princess_Fiona · July 22, 2008, 9:04pm

For guys atleast their masters degree and for girls atleast their bach degree.. This is that i think… And no iam not materialistic, prefering an educated person kaha say materialistic hogaya i didn`t say he must be rich or should have a BMW or Hummer car i simply said educated should be completed with atleast settle job.. (Again iam not expecting a $80000 per annum wala job).. Anyways so yeah now u tell me how is it materalistic

Aur shadi kay bad bohat hee mushkil hota hain to study as a married person.. You can ask this question from any married person… So why would someone leave their studies just to satisfy those damn hormones

P.S I know i wrote alot but i had to clear my point

citrine · July 22, 2008, 9:40pm

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yea i agree
i nevr heard sumne is gttng married for ths purpse only in mind...
sex freaks

restless_soul · July 22, 2008, 11:13pm

Then why people get marry? And then why always a marriage starts with a wedding night most of the times... I understand that making love is not the sole component of marriage, there are others too...

jalebi121 · July 23, 2008, 11:18am

I'm not sure myself. Sometimes I think a young guy is perfect, he is more adaptable and not as set in his ways. But he might be immature and not ready.

As for an older guy, he usually is financially set and more mature. But I feel like guys who are older when they marry might have inflated expectations of their wives, or too much history. and if they don't have history, i'm still afraid they might have become pervs by that age. I know, this all sounds like a lose-lose-lose situation but these are just my fears, and of course, most fears are irrational.

I think it is unnatural for men to contain their natural desire for procreation too long...the question is what is 'too long'? i haven't reached any conclusion on this..just my feelings