Re: marriage for females…isnt it a bit overrated?
.. I wonder how would you feel about a grl who is married but still pulling an all nighter on a friday nite to study for an exam that is on monday.. do I deserve double sympathy for that?
Also, I should mention before marriage it was only my mom telling me to study well and do good in my exams but now even my husband would tell me, “you have to do well” and I will be like, “bas aik tumhari hi kami reh gaye thi” 
Even though, I am not tooo much in responsibilities until now but I can so imagine the things that you are talking about but hey it comes in a package.. also, they say, shadi aisa lado jo khaye woh pachtaye jo na khaye woh pachtaye.. at the end of the day the feeling that someone is yours and is loving n caring just takes away any negative feelings that are part of the married life nonetheless.