Re: marriage for females...isnt it a bit overrated?
Irem it all depends on what you really want in life, I've been this ace all through college and school and even now the job I got was offered to me twice before, am i where I want to be in terms of my career..yep you bet, I know in a few years tme I'll be doing my PhD and then I'l be a Prof.
Never wanted to be a big time sucessful business woman, making lots of money, that just wouldn't make me happy, a family would though, and a career as an academic as well, and it;s somehting I can easily handle with having a family.
People have always told me how "rich and sucessful" Id be, coz I was so "smart" but the lil thngs in life make me happy, I love sitting in on the weekends and cooking for my family, tidying up the house and redocarting my room. I like writing up lil notes for my bro and mom just so they knwo I care, I like the thought of loving people and having a happy home and still being able to go out and have a career.
I'm not sayign career isn't important, I'm just saying it has different levels of importance to everyone. It'll always be something I want to have (coz I def don't want to become a frustrated housewife) but family will always be my first priority, I don't feel satisfied if I'm not showering my love on someone.
If I am not fortunate enough to get married then I'll go off and do social work, feed the hungry and teach underpriveleged kids or something. I need to be with people, loving them, caring about them, else living a life of me me and I I isn't very satisfying.