Marriage First or Career First?

[Sara516]

@Deeba1234

^ I agree, education first imo unless u really do believe u can balance the two (not just cos ur parents want u to hurry up cos ur getting ‘old’ )

It’s not easy tho, I’ve heard of many girls falling pregnant accidentally within a yr of marriage and of course education goes down the drain, couples fighting over housework etc cos they are both stressed from revising for exams, coursework etc. or hubby being under too much pressure not being able to afford bills or rent cos he is struggling working part-time and studying or not being able to pass his exams cos he has the added pressure of wife/family to take care of (and also the other way around). It can work if u have a lot of family support but defo would not be the ‘ideal’ way for me anyway..

It’s called birth control. they should try it. it really works. really!