Re: Marriage falling apart 
Give the above, is this the life partner you want?
That’s great…but here’s something very important you haven’t mentioned. Does HE also want to save this marriage as much as you do? Marriages don’t work unless BOTH people are committed to it.
Whether or not we think love or compatibility is important really doesn’t matter. Only YOU know what you’re going through on a daily basis. Its a blessing that no kids are involved. Do you want to raise a child in your current situation? 6 years of your life has already gone by. Are you willing to continue living like this for the next 40 years?
Answer the questions above and you’ll know what to do. But keep in mind…you can’t force anyone to change who they are.