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Pinks, i cried at my rukhsati and even had tears after the nikkah was done…but my mom was like “dont cry, we paid $— for your face” 
, but then during rukhsati, when she spoke to me i just bawled, not caring abt my makeup… but they do tell u that if ur gonna cry, DAB at your eyes, not RUB…that will keep it from smearing and looking totally ruined
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I'm not there yet. bummer
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lolllll… my sis says the same thing! she’s like itne paise lagaeN ge tumhara chehre par, you better not wash it off with ur tears! she suggests that we won’t let u hug Mum hence no bawling, and I was like 
oh, and JAK 4 the advise… I can very confidently say that I’ll be needing it 
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i was veryyyyyyyy happy and excited.....sometimes i was nervous about the wedding prep but overall i was very calm...i became sad when i was leaving for the airport and phir it hit me...OMG i am leaving my family!!!!! lol...but that too changed once i reached LA. :p
dekhain ji, please dont call lousy-yana LA, ppl may be confused and think u went to some cool place like Los Angeles and not Cajun-country :D
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tkhan,
May Allah swt bless you with sheer joy, happiness and calmness and may you marry happily and remain fully content through out your wedding ceremony and for the rest of your happy married life, amen. :>
please don’t scare your spouse to be or proposed partner with your sense of sacredness for marriage otherwise, its very easy for those who dot want you to be happily married, to eat away at your decision to marry that person and live with the same in happiness.
best,
Dushwari
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ok, is there anyone who like.... ummm... cried on their wedding day at rukhsati ka wakht?
I know it ruins your makeup and ur hubby may think u look like a chorhail post that... but what if u really cant help it :(
Is anyone here who is more on the emotional side, but managed to not cry? :(
The very thought of leaving my family brings tears to my eyes, hence I dont think about it at all (almost)...
i definitely cried at rukhsati time, i think most girls do, its the thought of leaving ur family, ppl you've known all ur life to start something totally new, of course its scary and stressful
and dont worry about what ur hubby will think, he should understand what you are going through! ppl shouldn't construe crying at the rukhsati as a threat to life long happiness, its normal, its just a bit of crying at a bitter sweet occasion
keep a few tissues in ur purse, and dab a the eyes very lightly as sara said. i found it helpful to look at the ceiling and then dab under ur eyes w/ a tissue
u should be fine, best of luck and congrats in advance!
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my friends have told me they felt scared
i know some girls whose hands were shaking when they signed their nikahnamas
i can imagine myself crying at my nikah...if it ever happens lol
its not easy dude
anyway, be comfortable with how you are feeling. you dont have to fit into a mould and feel a certain way. let yourself be
waisay this often happens when signing in :)
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tkhan, not for a normal happy and honest marriage, but it would be good for such a man to know, and keep even only to himself, what kind of emotions he experiences, when some days ago he seriously proposed someone else and then a couple of weeks later, he ends up marying another, deceiving both. it must not be really wrenching for him, at all.
best,
Dushwari
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Pre wedding tensions, there will be emotions, tears,arguments laughter, fear....... But alhamdulillah I didn't get cold feet or doubts. Other than that I cried loads over small things, argued with my aik loti sister, she told me she couldnt wait to get rid of me, i toldher I hated her LOL kissed made up, still miss each other like mad we speak on the phone everyday....
post wedding- your on a natural high all the time...its a nice comforting feeling :-) enjoy
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for all the criers... waterproof mascara! make sure you have that on!
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I cried at my nikah i dont know why , lolz it was just natural i dint cry that much on my rukhsati , i did cry bt not bawl i did that when i was leavin lahore for islamabad before my valima.
