Re: Marriage block | mom issues.
i have seen so many cases of such sort. it is your life and you should b the first to decide who can b your life partner. if you are not happy then your whole life these regrets won't leave u. you will never b satisfied. on the other hand, your mother has fostered many dreams of seeing u married, might had a dream of her future-to-be-bride. after all, it is mothers who sacrifice a lot about their sons and they want their unfulfilled desires to b accomplished by their sons.
but at the end IT IS UR LIFE and the relation which has such background might not prove healthy for both the partners. it sounds easy to sacrifice but what if ur mother's choice does not fill up the gap of ur choice. think of the life after that.
make ur mother agree to you by psychologically building up the gap. ask her about her expectations and there is always a way to such solutions. make her agree and then get married.if the reasons are solid ones and hold weight then do listen to her. think by being neutral just like an ouotsider and if ur find ur mother's objection right then give it a 2nd thought. but try to have ur mother with u. at times, later such marriages prove successful as i have seen cases where the same hated object bcumz the loved one but after a long period of struggle.